Kristin Cavallari Says She Left ‘Toxic’ Marriage For Same Reason She Ended Engagement

Kristin Cavallari is taking us again ― again to the start ― of her relationship with Jay Cutler, and shedding gentle on what precisely led to the couple’s divorce.

“It was toxic,” the “Laguna Beach” star mentioned of the previous couple’s relationship on Wednesday’s episode of “Call Her Daddy.” “Period, end of story, that’s all I kind of need to say.”

Cavallari mentioned she discovered herself hiding issues in regards to the relationship from mates and simply felt “really unhappy.”

“I was in an unhealthy relationship and so that, to me, is not worth it,” she continued. ”Additionally, I didn’t need my youngsters pondering that that was regular. And I needed them to see me joyful and see me ultimately ― not proper now ― however ultimately see me with somebody who actually respects me and treats me the way in which I must be handled.”

Cavallari mentioned she didn’t need to get too particular about sure particulars, for the sake of the couple’s three kids: Camden, Jaxon and Saylor.

Cavallari attends the NBCUniversal Summer season Press Day 2018 on Could 2, 2018 in Common Metropolis, California.

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“I’m very careful about what I say,” the truth star admitted, telling host Alex Cooper that “if you and I didn’t have microphones in front of us, I’d fucking tell you. But you know, that’s their dad. And my oldest Googles us now and I just want to be very careful.”

The previous NFL quarterback and the Unusual James founder acquired engaged in 2011 after solely eight months of relationship. The 2 briefly referred to as off the engagement earlier than reconciling and ultimately tying the knot in 2013.

The “Call Her Daddy” host requested Cavallari if she had actually ended the engagement for the rationale she gave on the time ― that she didn’t need to be a stay-at-home spouse.

“I mean it was so much bigger than that, though,” Cavallari answered. “But basically … I called off the engagement the same reason I got a divorce. Same reasons, I should say.”

She went on to say that if there’s “any takeway” from her ordeal, it’s that “you can’t ignore” pink flags.

“People don’t change and you’ve got to trust your gut,” she mentioned.

A still from Season 2 of E!'s "Very Cavallari."
A nonetheless from Season 2 of E!’s “Very Cavallari.”

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“It took me a few years to actually pull the trigger, to be honest,” she added. “Nothing major happened at the end, it was just time.”

She added, “And I remember always asking my mom like, ‘But how am I going to know?’ And she would be like, you’ll just know. And I did, I just kind of knew. And you know it’s the scariest thing, it’s also the saddest thing. I mean it’s so many emotions, but it can also be the best thing.”

However regardless of all of it, Cavallari mentioned has no regrets and he or she’s nonetheless “thankful for our time together.” And most of all, she doesn’t need something she says to get again to the couple’s three kids.

“My mom never said anything bad about my dad growing up and I really respected that and I want to be that kind of mom,” she mentioned.

Cavallari and Cutler collectively introduced they have been separating in an announcement in April 2020.

“With great sadness, after 10 years together we have come to a loving conclusion to get a divorce,” the 2 mentioned on Instagram on the time.

“We have nothing but love and respect for one another and are deeply grateful for the years shared, memories made and the children we are so proud of. This is just the situation of two people growing apart.”